The boys

So I talked moma into taking the boys home with her yesterday so I could catch up on some well needed rest and go to the doctor today but now I am really missing them like crazy, I can't wait for them to come home. Its like when you finally get a break, then you start missing them and you are ready for them to come home. I just finished talking with them on the phone and I felt like I was going to start crying and they have only been gone one night! I love my boys and miss them bunches, Tristan is at home still grounded for his horrible report card, everyone use to tell me the reason he was acting out was because he did not have any medicine but since he has been on his medicine he has went from AB honor roll to NO honor roll so you tell me, he is just playing in class and not trying to do his work, we will study spelling words all week long and he will know how to spell every word but when I get his test back he missed alot of the words but that comes from not paying attention and not caring. I had a long talk with him today about trying harder and paying attention in class but I don't think he takes it serious I mean come on he is a kid with one thing on his mind playing and he just doesn't understand the importance of school and he probably want until like me he is already out and wishes he would have tried harder. MY opinion of the ADHD medicine is it is a way for parents and grandparents not to have to deal with the child, I mean he really isn't hyper if you ask me I mean I do have 5 boys but he is just a kid? Aren't kids suppose to be hyper and a little out of control! I mean don't get me wrong Tristan is a great son, very smart, loving and alot of help but he just has some difficulty controling his self away from home and all that is,is that he probably knows that they can't just send him to his room like Warren and I can so he takes advantage of that alittle and talks them to death and ask them a million questions where I would be like Tristan shut up, they can't or at least they think they can't if you ask me I say go for it TELL HIM TO SIT DOWN AND SHUT UP! but anyway he kinda takes advantage of their niceness lol! So anyway we will continue to dope up our son as told is best for him!! lmao